Frumpy to Fabulous in 5 Easy Steps
Happy Wednesday, ladies. Today, we are going from Frumpy to Fabulous in 5 Easy Steps. Honesty, if you’re a woman of a certain age you’ve heard the word “frumpy” bandied about frequently. And it can strike fear in our hearts because no one, and I mean no one, wants to hear that dreaded phrase “You look frumpy!”
Being a style content creator and having my photos and videos splashed across a myriad of social channels I often hear, “You look age appropriate (whatever that means)” or “You’re not age appropriate”; “You’re matronly” and “You look frumpy.” And I won’t even go into the many, many comments that my skirts and dresses are too short or even too long for that matter, I shouldn’t wear shorts or sleeveless tops, and never, ever “try too hard.”
Fashion is a tricky landscape, to say the least, and it’s open for interpretation. But one thing I know is that if we’re armed with the right tools in our fashion toolbox we can step out the door each day feeling confident. And that’s what style is all about.
So ask yourself these questions: are you tired of feeling like your wardrobe is holding you back? Do you feel frumpy and uninspired by your style? Or maybe you’re stuck in a style rut, and it's time for a change.
With these tips, you'll be able to go from frumpy to fabulous in no time. So, let's get started!
TL;DR
Today we are going from frumpy to fabulous in 5 easy steps
Outfits are shoppable via text widgets and look for inspiration outfit boards.
Frumpy to Fabulous in 5 Easy Steps
1. Know Your Body Type
The graphic shows the most common body shapes, or type. For example, the apple body type is characterized by a round midsection, while the pear body type is defined by wider hips and a smaller waist. Other body types include the hourglass (curvy with a defined waist), rectangle (straight with little waist definition), and inverted triangle (broader shoulders and narrower hips).
Once you've determined your body type, you can start selecting clothes that flatter your figure.
Identifying your body type can be tricky, but it's a crucial step in creating a wardrobe that makes you feel confident and empowered.
2. Choose the Right Pieces
Now that you know how to identify your body type, it's time to dive into specific fashion tips that will help you create a wardrobe that you love. The right pieces can make all the difference in a style makeover. These pieces should also reflect your personal style. Whether you prefer classic, trendy, or a mix of both, there are plenty of options out there to choose from.
It's important to choose items that highlight your best features and complement your body type. When it comes to dressing for your body type, the golden rule is to always choose clothes that fit well. Ill-fitting clothes can make you look sloppy and unfashionable and send you straight into the frump zone. And choose pieces that highlight your best features. For instance, if you have a smaller waist, you can wear a belt to accentuate it. If you love your legs wear skirts, shorts, and dresses. V-neck blouses and tees will highlight your cleavage. If you love your shoulders then halter tops or one-shoulder dresses are your friend.
3. Invest in Quality Basics
As you continue to refine your personal style, it's important to focus on the foundation of your wardrobe: quality basics. These are the pieces that will form the building blocks of your outfits, and investing in high-quality versions will not only elevate your style but will also save you money in the long run.
Start with pieces like a classic white button-down shirt, a well-fitting pair of jeans, and a simple black dress. These are versatile items that can be dressed up or down and will never go out of style. Look for high-quality materials and construction, and don't be afraid to spend a little extra to get the best.
4. Accessorize to Elevate
When it comes to accessorizing, the options are endless. You can choose from jewelry, belts, scarves, hats, bags, and more. However, it's important to choose accessories that complement your outfit and don't overpower it. For example, if you're wearing a bold statement necklace, you may want to keep your earrings simple.
An easy way to take your outfit from frumpy to fabulous is with layered necklaces, whether dainty or bold, add a touch of sophistication and can make a statement without being too overwhelming. The key is to balance the length and style of each necklace. You can mix different textures, sizes, and metals to create a unique and personalized look. Layered necklaces are versatile and can be worn with any outfit, from a simple t-shirt to a formal dress. Don't be afraid to experiment and find the perfect combination to enhance your style.
Recreate the Outfit
5. Maintain Your New Look
One important factor in maintaining your new style is to take good care of your clothes. It’s always about maintenance. Make sure to read and follow the care instructions on each garment's label, and don't be afraid to invest in high-quality laundry detergent, fabric softeners, and stain removers. Additionally, consider taking some of your more delicate or expensive pieces to a professional cleaner for proper care and maintenance.
Another key to keeping your style fresh is to regularly edit your closet. As you continue to build your wardrobe, take time to assess what pieces are working and what ones aren't. If you find that you're not wearing something as much as you thought you would, consider donating or consigning it to make room for new items.
By following these simple tips, you can continue to look fabulous and stylish long after your initial style makeover. Keep building your wardrobe with quality pieces, edit often, take good care of your clothes, and have fun with accessories. With these foundational elements in place, you'll always be looking your best.
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I have a hard time figuring out if I am an apple or pear shape. I have never thought you look frumpy at all. You always look classy, even when you are in casual clothes, you hit the mark almost everytime. We all miss the mark sometimes and feel we don’t look the best that day. Sometimes you are a long dresses that I can’t wear because I am short, but you look great since you are tall… Love your post! Great tips today
Great post, especially about choosing clothes for your body type. I used to be a pear with a 19 inch waist and now I am an apple with no waist at all. I have found that an empire long dress is the most flattering on me, but don’t see many out there. I would like it if you would do a post for each body type to give us some ideas of what to look for. You always seem to find the right clothes for your type. Have you figured out what it is?
Wonderful advice I agree with you I am very tiny. I’m 5 feet weigh about 92 pounds so I’m very careful trying to get my clothes to fit good. I have them altered and I make sure I try to buy the best and I take very good care of them, very good article
I enjoy following you because you are one of the few bloggers that is about the same body type as me, shops at similar stores, and a similar style sense. It really helps me in planning my shopping trips. Thanks for putting up with all the noise on social media.
Very nice post! We all need to be reminded of the basics of looking non-frumpy! I love the Inspo boards in this post and the tips on laundry etc. Most times I’m in such a hurry, that after taking the time to cultivate my wardrobe, I don’t properly care for it! Btw, after asking you questions about the Rowenta steamer (which you kindly answered), I bought it! It’s great, so I’m on my way to taking better care of my clothes, and ordered a few of the laundry products you recommend in this post! I love it! Following you is such fun!
I took a class a couple years ago to learn body type and how to dress my body type. Very informative!! Good information in this post. Thank you
Have a wonderful day!!!